It occurs to me that people should be
outraged by such things. I feel like I
am in a minority that try to understand such actions by Koreans, and because of
my family ties am a little more tolerant and realise that not all Koreans are
this way inclined. I also understand
that because of their history, this sort of thing is what one would
expect. I will even grant them this; I
understand that they feel like Westerners can behave poorly in Korea when drunk
and American soldiers have not given the best impression to them in this regard
especially, and that this could be the reason they refused entry to them. I will accept all of this, yet still I am
offended and we still need to draw their attention to these events when they
occur.
The legitimacy of their reasons for
refusing entry to foreigners may be partly warranted if they have experienced
bad behaviour from these people in the area.
But the essence of racism is that you cannot make judgments on everyone
else just because a few bad eggs share common skin colour/s. The fact is they would have refused anyone
with a white or black face regardless of their background; they could even have
been Korean citizens for all they knew with Korean family. In another case of refusal of entry, I was also told of a nightclub in my town, Suncheon that
did not allow foreigners. The reason –
which I was told of by a Korean friend – is that Westerners drew too much
attention to themselves, and especially drew too much attention from Korean
women, which Korean men did not enjoy.
I happen to be very lucky in that I am a
fair-haired white man, pretty much what they expect of a foreigner in
Korea. I receive some forms of prejudice
when I am with my wife but rarely when I am on my own. If I do experience any discrimination it is
in a positive way, with comments about how handsome I am, or just general
friendly greetings that single me out in a crowd. Sometimes, though, I
wish I could spend a week of my life in a different skin colour, maybe black or
South East Asian looking and feel what it is like to be them in Korea. I have the suspicion that I would have to
grow a pretty thick skin and never learn Korean to a good standard; I do not
think I would want to know what they are saying about me.
My students - who I really do love most
of the time - give me an insight into just what they think by frequently saying
racist remarks about black people. But
the thing is that these kids are fantastic the rest of the time, they are great and I
cannot hate them for saying any of these things. Perhaps then, we should use this as an
example in the best way to react, with anger at the culture of racism and at each situation when it occurs but not at the
individuals. These students are not bad,
they have merely been brought up in a culture suspicious of foreigners. Their dislike of black people must have come from somewhere, and I can only
think it must have come from us in the West.
We have carried our own bigotry over with us when we first started
having relations with Koreans and may continue it with subtle prejudice in movies and music. The thing
is we have moved on a little because of our more multi-cultural societies, we
have seen the bad times and learned from them, Koreans have not.
It is easy for us to judge, but Koreans
simply do not have the experience of dealing with these situations. Over the past 20-30 years they have had more
exposure to these issues, but it will clearly take a lot longer for them to be
resolved, so expect another scandal involving discrimination to be coming
sometime soon. We sure deserve to be
angry about them when they come about but we must be careful not to judge Koreans too
harshly when these incidents occur.
After all, what they are not doing is lynching foreigners, shooting
them, or shouting foul mouthed abuse at them (at least I have not experienced this), all situations that our own
countries experienced in the past (and less frequently in the present).
With all our experience in the West we
sit atop an exulted position on the moral high-ground on many issues regarding
discrimination, human rights, and general fairness. We also are regularly insulted by the lack of
good manners in many Korean people. What
we must realise is that Korea as a civilised society is still relatively
young. It is not they are less
intelligent than us or do not have access to current knowledge, they simply
have not experienced what the societies we have been brought up in have experienced.
To illustrate this point I will use a
sporting analogy; I have been a reasonably good squash player for many years
and with this ability it tends to give me a natural awareness of other sports
that are hand-eye related, all of which I pick up technique quite quickly. I usually can therefore watch a Tennis
player, like Roger Federer, and copy his technique for a top-spin backhand and
when I come to play Tennis I can play the shot fairly decently. The more I practice, however, the better this
shot becomes (obviously). The same
premise operates with Korean society with issues of prejudice and
fairness. They know the arguments, many
know how they should ideally behave but they simply have not had enough
practice yet. They have had more dealings
with white people and markedly less with black people and this shows in the
less prejudiced view of white people. I wonder what proportion of the population have even seen a black person, let alone had any interaction with them, which could amend some of their prejudice.
These may be seen as excuses by some
people but they are not, they are explanations.
Explanations do not excuse, they just give some insight so that it may
be possible to understand.
Because of the above, Western society is
50 to 60, maybe even 100 years ahead on issues of racial equality compared to
Korea. My grandfather was undoubtedly a
racist by today’s Western standards; did that make him a bad person? No, he was just a product of his time. In another example - one of the most admired
men in American history - Abraham Lincoln's comments on black people can be
deemed incredibly offensive by modern people:
“I
have never had the least apprehension that I or my friends would marry negroes
if there was no law to keep them from it, but as Judge Douglas and his friends
seem to be in great apprehension that they might, if there were no law to keep
them from it, I give him the most solemn pledge that I will to the very last
stand by the law of this State, which forbids the marrying of white people with
negroes.” – Abraham Lincoln in the fourth debate with Stephen Douglas.
This was just one example of plenty I
could have used. This does not take away
from any of his achievements and we cannot really tarnish his reputation with
this. The fact is that most white people
in America (indeed the world) were racist back then.
While the treatment of black people has
significantly improved in the West, be rest assured that we still hold
prejudices by race ourselves. Not in
law, and licensed establishments cannot have them but they regularly show up in
our societies nonetheless. As a white
man I thought that they had almost disappeared.
But as I walked down the street on a Saturday night in my country with
an Asian girl on my arm, I could see and hear that they were still very much alive. And not only that, I myself had stirrings of
suspicion going on in my mind when an acquaintance I knew from an opposing
squash team turned up with his fiancé of the same age who he met in
Thailand. If he was 60 and she was 20
perhaps I would be right to be suspicious but surely they should be given the
benefit of the doubt as they were the same age. It is my reckoning that this doesn’t happen for them an
awful lot.
We also still experience many race hate crimes and these tend to be more severe than in Korea. So when we jump too much on our high-horse, Korean people can quite rightly point out these problems in our own societies.
We also still experience many race hate crimes and these tend to be more severe than in Korea. So when we jump too much on our high-horse, Korean people can quite rightly point out these problems in our own societies.
With all this in mind the reaction to
past, present, and future stories of racism in Korea should be one of almost
equal outrage and understanding, we are right to be angry but we could temper this with the realisation that own culture has traveled a long way and still has further to go. Korean racism exists and their prejudice probably occurs in a greater percentage of the population than in the West, but it is possibly in a less destructive form. This perspective could hold the key to better relations between us and rid ourselves of the ridiculous notion that the colour of people's skins can determine their character and behaviour, something that deep-down is an idea that more of us indulge in than we would care to admit.
One bar doesn't let you in and you put a lynch mob picture? Why does every place have to let everyone in? Can you get into a rich persons house just by asking to come in?
ReplyDeleteYou fight racism while the rich 1% are laughing in your face.
Go home to where you can be a poor scum like the rich want you to.
Did you read the article or just look at the pictures? You do know that the lynch mob picture is right next to the paragraph that tells how in the past in USA and around the world was possibly more racist than Korea. I used it as a comparison saying that it is just a bar refusing people, not a lynch mob.
DeleteAnd you are right about the bar, if it doesn't let foreigners in it's up to them they have every right in this country, but we also have every right to be offended by their policy and call it a stupid prejudiced one.
no, it's not discrimination. it's only a question of different culture.
Deletealso in Japan you can find some places "japanese only". But it's not racism.
Discotek, party, some restourants, are private places. Public bus, train, ecc, are public places. If i want to go in a discotek, and i see, they are all japanese or korean, or german, i understund that i can 't easyli go inside. To go inside , at first i must show i kn ow something about that culture (Language,history,ecc). But if I speak out loud, and if I also have tattoos, and if i enter in some homes without taking out my shoes, OBVIOUS that no one can accepts me. Korean only, japanese only, ecc, means only " i try to protect, to defend my culture
Hmmm. I share with you the annoyance of people who jump to a racist discriminatory explanation, when in fact it is a reasonable cultural one, but in this case, I do believe it is discriminatory and there are a few examples of this in Korea.
DeleteThere are a few things to understand in this case. Firstly, the bar is in the most multicultural district, not just in Seoul, but in the entire country. Secondly, people were turned away because of the colour of their skin; even people who were Korean citizens or married into the culture could not go into the club if their appearance was not Korean.
There are a few other similar cases I have heard along these lines. One was about getting a free subway pass for over 65's. I heard that there were cases of female Korean citizens of various non-Korean decent who could not receive it, purely on the basis that they did not look Korean, despite the fact they are legally Korean citizens who had been paying into the system for years.
Show while I agree we should be cautious about throwing around discrimination charges against people, in this case the only way you could show you know something about the culture is by having the physical appearance of a Korean, you could have lived in Korea as a citizen for 20 years and they wouldn't have let you in. That is discrimination.
"These may be seen as excuses by some people but they are not, they are explanations. Explanations do not excuse, they just give some insight so that it may be possible to understand."
ReplyDeleteThat's very nice.
South Korea may have plenty good to offer but you're halfway correct on racism. Where I disagree is where you say there's no violence against foreigners though I understand that it takes time to see it all. Here's some info on it:
ReplyDeletehttps://sites.google.com/site/racisminsouthkorea/